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Friday, January 14, 2011
One last lesson from Chris...
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Monday, November 22, 2010
Moving On...
I just about killed another shredder yesterday. Yes, another one! I bought one a few years back to get rid of the mountains of stuff I had held onto for way too long.
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Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Coming this Week...
Watch here for new details on my new blog site!
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Sunday, November 7, 2010
Sunday Gratitude
I have been in a weird (but not unfamiliar) place of late. I get one thing uprighted and another one falls by the wayside. And it is dark.
- I am hugely grateful to know that sadness does not hurt me and I can sit with it quietly, safely today.
- I am grateful for my health and ability to take care of my house.
- I am grateful for friends all over the world who remind me that I am not alone in the grand scheme of things!
- I am grateful for two amazing sisters that bring me such joy and happiness daily, even when they are bratty and annoying!
- I am grateful for sister-friends who are far from me in location and still deeply and fondly in my heart always! I miss you and love you!
- I am grateful for work that provides me money to do Christmas shopping at a gorgeous place like Phipps Conservatory.
- I am grateful for a quiet, contentment with myself these days that I can sit quietly sipping tea, reading a magazine, planning for the holidays.
- I am grateful for the awareness that I have so much gratitude today!
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Thursday, October 21, 2010
Quirky
Have you ever stopped to think about your own quirks?
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Monday, October 11, 2010
ALL IN...Search & Rescue Mission
Not sure where to begin tonight. If you are here you know me…I think or so you think. I am about to get into it for real…please know that this is going to be painful and I am not looking for sympathy or pity. I am just done carrying around a load of pain that is weighing me down. I am done.
Tonight I AM ALL IN!
*gulp*
Hi, My name is NICOLE.
I am a food addict.
The last time I weighed myself I weighed in at 283 pounds.
*yep...gonna vomit now*
I use food for comfort, for soothing, for celebration, for sadness, in my sleep, in my waking hours, it is inhaled, it is stuffed, it is not enjoyed, it for protection, it is how I have survived the pain and fear.
I AM ADDICTED TO FOOD.
*shit*
It is not like alcohol or drugs where you can just stop, yeah cuz that would be easier, not what I am saying. I am just saying that one needs to eat to survive. I can’t stop eating. I can stop eating for reasons other than sustenance.
So it is a constant conscious battle.
I am not sure that I like the word battle but right now that is how it feels. I am in the battle of my life for my life and for me.
I thought going through my childhood, my divorce, heartbreaks untold were battles that I would never get through, yet I did it! And some how I did with grace, with integrity and most of all with kindness. And all of these were survived with great amounts of untold support. (more to come on each of these another time)
I am taking these ideas (grace, integrity, kindness) and more to my current battle.
I started onto the battle field years ago. Diet pills when I was 12, diet pills when I was 24, grapefruit diet, jenny craig, weight watchers, lindora, and too many other random attempts at the battle to mention. This was NOT the battle I would be able to win. I stepped off the battlefield about 2 years ago.
I just wanted to get my head straight.
Some of what I learned…
-I can do anything I want at “this” weight
-I am supported unconditionally.
-I am ENOUGH.
-I am SAFE.
-I am LOVED.
-I fit.
-I have a place here and there.
I needed to know that it was okay for me to want to have a burger and not beat myself up about it. I needed to learn that I could buy candy and not get in trouble. I needed to know that I could have anything I wanted and it was up to me to decide and treat myself with grace, integrity and kindness.
I started this by getting off the diet train. It was hard. People around me want to know when are you going back to WW? What are you doing? You need to be doing something. All out of love and kindness but I was on my own "search and rescue mission" and it just had to be that way for now.
This "search and rescue mission" is about me and for me. No other opinions or input needed. (Thanks for caring.)
I have discovered ME. I have discovered that I like ME. I even have found that I love ME! ME!!!!
The rescue mission piece has been a bit of a tricky maneuver. It has required some interesting tools, more later on the buying candy and throwing it out the car window on a recent drive. Some trust in my process. After all I had searched and found me right there where I left me so now I just need to trust my techniques.
So while it is not a quick fix.
For now it is a start and tonight I am ALL IN!
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Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Attitude of Gratitude
I need to publish more...how lovely to say that and not I need to write more. The truth is I have been writing almost daily for the last few weeks. So in an effort to silence "THEM" (you know THEM...the voices in your head, the dread, the judgement, the negativity, yada yada yada) I am putting out a much needed GRATITUDE posting.
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Tuesday, September 28, 2010
The Let Down...Get Over It
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Thursday, September 23, 2010
Chipped Nail Polish
It has been a long and overdue while since I have braved the posting world of this blog. I know that some of you have missed me and I am coming back. Well, really I never left just went into internal mode for a while. I am starting to reappear and it is amazing!
Now, why now am I back?!?! Well, I chipped a nail today. Really they were chipped hours after I painted them and I even threw in a bottle to touch up before my workshop. I needed to look perfect or atleast as close to perfection in my brain. For me today that meant have non-chipped nails. HA! The universe had other plans for that one! And who am I am fight with that! So tonight as I stare down at my fingers flying on the keyboard I smile knowing that my nails are chipped and somehow I have made peace with this.
Why is that you ask?!?! I release this overarching need for constant perfection in a messy life. I release myself from this constant barrage of negative self-talk that wants me to hide my powerful hands because a tiny spot of nail polish chipped off!
Pft!
I. DON'T. THINK. SO!
I am ENOUGH! Just in the messy, imperfect state that I am in right now!
I am enough. I am worthy. I am valuable. I am beautiful. I am!
So just for today the end of the first day of a long peeling back of layers workshop, I say to the world:
I AM ENOUGH! I AM!
And with a smile coming from my core I am back and watch this site for more discoveries and unfoldings and more about
Nicole.
Namaste!
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